Of course the vessel must be seaworthy, safe, and loaded with provisions and spares. The route must be carefully chosen with consideration to prevailing winds and currents.

But even more important can be the choice of crew.

Now, I am no psychologist, but having sailed thousands of miles offshore with many different people, I have made some interesting observations.

People change at sea!

Mostly this is very subtle change but some times not so! Even the strongest people can be humbled by the vastness of the ocean. For some there is an overwhelming sense of insecurity, for some a relaxed acceptance and serenity, and for still others, a kind of lethargy overtakes them and they find it hard to even leave there bunks.

Although the extremes may be rare, by watching the crew carefully even before leaving the dock, but especially at the beginning of the passage, it is possible to find common ground. Everyone has strong points and by finding out how each member of the crew can contribute to the well being of the group it is possible for everyone to have a focus and to enjoy not only the adventure of sailing but also the rewards of working as a team.

Shared hardships can be a very strong bonding experience. Working together as a team on a long ocean passage in close quarters can teach one how to be truly considerate. Perhaps most importantly the camaraderie that develops from sharing a common love of nature and the ocean can lead to lasting friendships and memories, ones that we can carry throughout our lives.

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